This is hard to put into words. But sometimes in life things just feel right. I would say spend the money. It's not a great deal of money. You only live once. True love doesn't happen most times in life for most people and so far for me I've found true love. For all the men out there that have second thoughts about going on the tour or not, I would say do it. It's life-changing. It's definitely changed me. This would have a profound effect on any single man or divorced, to take a chance and experience this. Whether you meet somebody or not it's an adventure that will change your life. So I would say get off the couch and put your best foot forward.