My partner and I wanted to spice things up (👀), and Doublelist's been a gamechanger. SO discreet, so NO awkwardness. People here are really open-minded and they just know what you mean and what you want. Posting as a couple was super easy, and messaging other users is quick (you get to choose whether you'd like to email them or just straight out of the app). The best part here is your personal info is safe!!! When you sign up, there's no long forms to fill out! Just an email (I used my discreet email) and my phone number. They don't display that info anywhere which I think is great!