Do not use this site. I know people that have had much better experiences with free dating sites then on here. Eharmony are really expensive and often matches you with people that live 100's of miles away. I'm not able to drive for 3 hours to go on a date. The other things is I have been matched with 50 people and only 1/50 has gotten back to me. I think a lot of them are only on the free trial anyway so they can't even receive messages at that point. The whole process is ridiculous and I wish I never bothered with it.