I emailed a lady before I went to Peru and I got no response. I emailed her a month before I went. No response whatsoever. I went there, I met her once and got a date. That simple. So get out there and go on dates because these women aren’t going to marry guys that write letters and don’t show up. All they want is for guys to meet them in person and say hello. I recommend treating yourself to a tour because it's what you need. You need to get out there and do this. This was the most amazing experience I ever had that led me to marrying the most amazing woman that I ever met.