The secret is there are no friends. And another secret is there are no benefits. There are bots who pretend to be friends, and there is a massive rip off instead of the benefits. Just avoid! No one will exchange personal contacts. If you want to get down to things quickly, the best option is Joy4Love.com Hands down, it is the biggest and the oldest casual dating site and they still care about their reputation, so there is none of all that rip off going on there. Not all users are 100% genuine, but most of them are. There are many honest people who genuinely indicate their intentions in their profiles. You are not asked for money 50 times a day like on Friendswithbenefits. FWB is a mere rip off. Low value site with fake profiles and scammers all around.