Man, I’ve tried so many sites before and most were trash, just silent inboxes or weird scammy vibes. La-date feels different!!!! People actually TALK here. I messaged two women my first day and both answered, one of them still chats with me every evening. Feels kinda old-school, like writing letters back and forth, which I like. Yeah, you pay per message, but it makes you think about what you say instead of spamming random hellos. Feels more serious. I even got a long letter last week that honestly made my day. No weird drama so far, just easy conversation and good energy. If you’re tired of apps where no one even looks at your messages, this is worth it.