SexFinder is a crackhead business! It's overwhelmingly fraudulent. There is whole lot of better options, especially if you're looking for just a quickie or a short-term relationship. For example AdultsFlirt.com is a perfect fit if that's what you're looking for. It may not be suitable for long-term relationship though. Anyway, don't get engaged with SexFinder because it is filled with fake auto-generated accounts and because they charge you for 3 months when you pay for one month. If you pay for 3 months they charge you for one year without your authorization. No warning, no asking for your consent- just automatic renewal of your membership the next day.