Hello! Sorry that you had an issue with getting into the wetsuit. We're happy to help offer guidance and sizing help for anyone, you just have to reach out. Our size charts are set to as best as possible and individual preference on how a wetsuit fits (ie how tight one can stand) can really impact the size ranges, or so we've seen over the years. Trying on a suit is really the only way you can truly know about sizing, which can be difficult for someone who may be new to wetsuits as they can be difficult to get into at first.
If you are still in the market for a wetsuit, I would highly recommend reaching out so we can get your height and weight and offer our thoughts. I also want to point out that we redesigned the WXLA sizing in 2024, and that suit fits a larger woman, and is a better overall fit for many people than the older WXLA sizes for suits manufactured prior to 2024. Thanks!