Heroine Strap On Harness Black / XS/S Reviews

3.6 Rating 9 Reviews

About Thistle and Spire:

Proudly female-founded in Brooklyn in 2015, Thistle and Spire was created to give a beautiful boost to anyone who needs a lift, literally and figuratively. Fed up with the same old stale styles and beauty standards, we were inspired to do things daringly different and to give you that extra edge to put power into every moment.

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0413667326

Email:

hello@thistleandspire.com

Location:

20 w 20th Street, 1103,
New York
New York
10011

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Which size did you buy? S

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“I really like the look and feel of this harness! The only difficult part, for me, was adjusting the straps to keep the rings centered and tight against the body. The straps are made of a material that feels like fake leather, and I was worried that I would scratch or rip it in trying to tighten them (this is a fun partner activity if you'd like to work it into your evening, lol). I was also concerned because Thistle and Spire specifically recommends not yanking too hard. For a harness, I'd be more into a strap material that can take some wear and tear in the adjusting/pulling department. Straps aside, I like the overall construction and feel of this harness a lot! It was fun to wear with garters, which I purchased separately. I also like it that you can change the ring size using well-placed snaps.”

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Posted 2 days ago

“I’ve never purchased but I find it offensive the man photo has bush but the women has no bush? What’s up with that? It’s 2025. Year of this bush. This feels like bush discrimination. Bush for all or bush for none.”

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Posted 5 months ago

Hi babe, We totally hear you and appreciate you raising this. As a female-led, inclusive brand, we don’t have any rules around body hair in our shoots — it’s entirely up to each model and what makes them feel most confident. We absolutely respect their choices and would never advocate for any norms that suppress self-expression. Bush or no bush, it’s all valid here, xx

Posted 5 months ago

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Which size did you buy? XS

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“Just like with the matching harness bra, there was no way to make this tight enough that it would’ve actually supported a strap on, or even just not look ridiculous. FYI, small bodies are also “real” bodies.”

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Posted 10 months ago

Hi Gina! Sorry to hear you weren't able to adjust this enough. Our Heroine Strap On Harness is fully adjustable in the waist, but we understand that every body is different. We recommend customers checking our sizing guide before making a purchase. We offer free returns and exchanges. We're sure you'll find something you love!

Posted 10 months ago

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Which size did you buy? XS, S

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“Purchased from Australia and was so shocked at how quickly it arrived! Really great quality, very flattering and also easy to adjust and secure while still looking like lingerie”

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Posted 1 year ago

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Which size did you buy? XS

“Not much to say other than it looks like the photos and fits well/comfortably. The thin straps are a little tricky to adjust, but by no means impossible. It helped to have a smaller tool (e.g. a pen tip) to get some leverage if my fingers couldn't reach.”

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Posted 1 year ago

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Which size did you buy? S

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“The fit of this is perfect. I am normally a S/M in bottoms and ordered this size based off of reviews and I’m so glad I did. I love how adjustable it is so you can get a snug fit.”

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Posted 1 year ago

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Which size did you buy? S

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“I like that this harness is sleek and comes with multiple ring sizes. Haven't tried 'using' it yet but it feels secure enough. The belt clasp makes it easy to get in and out of. The garter clasps are a little annoying if you don't plan on wearing stockings. I wish they were removable.”

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Posted 1 year ago

“The photos look great and the harness is pretty but the materials used are not sturdy for this type of garment. Upon unboxing one of the snaps broke off prior to even wearing the piece, rendering the ring unusable before even getting it onto my body. The polyester vegan leather feels too delicate for multiple uses, I think this type of material will start shedding in the adjustable areas with use and age. So sad to have to return this piece but need something functional.”

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Posted 1 year ago

Hi Jen, We are truly sorry for the issue. We will be reaching out to directly to help resolve this for you. xoxo

Posted 1 year ago