I have been going to psychiatrists with my husband for over 20 years and he has a really good one, that works with him on his care and explains everything to him. For instance, my psychiatrist did a bipolar test on me. Having lived with a bipolar spouse for 20 years, this was offensive to me. When I spoke with my husbands psychiatrist, he explained to me why she would be looking in that direction based off of the meds that haven't worked and that she is just checking things off her list and not to take that personally. It would have been nice to hear that from her, rather than feeling like my psychiatrist has the total wrong idea about me.