Shocking results: absolute zero! no contacts, no replies, no likes, nothing. I'm quite popular on the other sites, for example http://J4Love.net - I have had quite a few really awesome dates there. But where did all these women who had "liked" me on POF go when I paid for membership? They are nowhere to be found now! I realize that they ( their photos) were just used as bait-and-switch. The site chose very