This product has greatly helped out my sex life. I went from lasting a couple minutes to 15 or 20. The extra time before climax has allowed us to explore some different positions and techniques we didn't have time for otherwise, and my wife is more interested in sex now that she is getting hers. Product takes about 20 minutes to fully kick in for me so timing is important. Ive found that if I apply the spray and give it some time to work while I engage in foreplay with my wife, she is not sitting there waiting for me and it doesn't ruin the mood. Its all about time management. The only real issue I have is Promescent has a strong lidocaine, minty type smell, but it works and that is why I keep coming back. I was skeptical but have come to appreciate and value this product. Give it a try.