My daughter was initially very pleased with the necklace I bought for her for Christmas. She had asked for only that, "Live in the moment" with the cat. She loves cats! Unfortunately she had an argument with her siblings and me, and then decided she did not want the necklace as it reminds her of the argument. I am left with the necklace which I cannot return and can only hope that at some time in the future she will ask for it. My daughter was born with fetal alcohol syndrome and can be a challenge, as you can see, as well as mental health issues that are related.