Main thing I feel is don't expect to get away with fibbing on your profile and getting away with it for long! Skip the filtered photos too! The men I've dated on here are very upfront and can be almost too honest. They will call you out fast! It happened to me once because I put I don't smoke on my profile which wasn't true and I regretted it with my date that turned out to be super picky. He actually smelled it on me and said he can't be around someone that smelled like an ashtray! So rude, haha. Since then, I honestly put my age, body type, that I smoke, etc. Over the past year, I met several men that met my expectations and I had a great time with all of them. My first real date from SB lasted 3 months. Most of my dates have actually been great. I have dated most of them on several occasions. There are all kinds of men on here so I feel like there should be someone for just about anybody so don't get discouraged, just be honest.