I recently joined secretbenefits.com. I am 48, and completed my divorce in January. I went through a healing period, but I am ready to stick my head out to the singles world, but not my heart. This website seems to be a great place for someone like me to start dating again. The women I've met up to now (3 to date in person), have not only been beautiful but also gracious and understanding. My privacy has been respected and I was not required to enter any payment info when creating my profile and I appreciate that no monthly membership fee is required. My only wish us that a live video chat would be an option as I personally feel better about meeting someone for the first time if we do chat via live video first.