Totally get that not everyone's experience on here will not be the same. For me, personally, I'm enjoying using SecretBenefits. There are lots of men's profiles within an hour's trip and so far, they have been complete gentlemen. I probably get 3-4 messages a week right now, and out of those I will find at least 1 to be exceptional. It's understood on my profile that I'm just looking for casual dating and that has been respected by the men I choose to go out with. At the moment, things have kinda slowed down as far as going out with everything going on, but I'm still enjoying the conversations and arranging future dates.