It is NOT at all comfortable. My wife and I both sat on it, fully clothed for about 30 seconds each and found it to be painfully uncomfortable. I reached out to them requesting info on how to return it and was advised that they NEVER accept returns or give refunds. The person I conversed with was Tiffany. She asked why I was dissatisfied and I told her it was painful and she told me that the pain factor was not relevant since people in the BDSM community enjoy pain. I pointed out that the ads said it was comfortable and said that comfort was subjective. Then asked if I ever “had a dick in me.” I asked how that was relevant and she said that I may not find it comfortable, but that she did. The product itself sucks and the service the company offers is among the worst I have ever experienced.