“VioletDates is full of scammers preying on hopeful single people trying to take advantage of their loneliness. All the women are under the site's payroll! Avoid it at all costs! If you like Ukrainian girls I can recommend
J4Match.com
It is significantly better because there are no employees of the site pretending to be female members. I've already been on two dates via this site. Both of them went great. When are used VioletDates I got contact details of three women. All of them absolutely refused to use free sites and messengers. They just wanted to stay on VioletDates and keep on chatting forever earning commissions.”
“You people are too expensive for me,
I'm not to be kept out by this reasoning
Of have having higher pricing will also keep out the dross. I'm lower income, i'm retired, but not dross. Your costs are an impedement to the relationship being formed. Kind regards, Winston Nicoll”
“Every message, every chat is incentivized. You pay for it and part of the fee you pay goes to the woman. Sometimes they are robotic messages, sometimes there are site's employees writing you in chat and trying to get you're interested. If you try any legit site like
J4Bride.com
you will notice that women aren't spending days and nights online there and not all of them are interested in you. As for Violet Dave absolutely every woman that you contact will write you back which is great but it's not normal isn't it? The secret is when you spend 3000 credits and get their contact information they will lose interest in you. They will come up with some kind of excuse to keep communication on Violetdates. No matter what they won't agree to use Whatsapp or any other free messenger. Violetdates is a pointless waste of money!”
“I have been on this site and others that are set up exactly like this one - perhaps they are all affiliated. It appears they are as their prices changed at the same time. I have used the Latin site Funnchat for a long time and have met several members there and also here. At this point I don't know what to think. They all will eventually claim they love you but don't expect it goes further than the site. There are never any other means of communication. One even claimed she doesn't have a phone! There sometimes is manipulation for gifts which I don't do and I find a red flag. I have set up different accounts to "test" my member friends and they all were fooled and one even said she and the REAL me were just friends. One said she hasn't found love yet has proclaimed it for me many times. I have seen many members on different sites too. Many state they didn't even know! I would say if you simply want to chat with someone, I suppose it's OK. It is very expensive and I rarely do more than send messages. A very short video of a member - about 15 seconds will cost you at least $10. Everything here is expensive - too much so. All the members are beautiful which is a red flag and the photos are professionally done and edited. Incredible photos in fact - too good. Expect many messages from members but you aren't special. Everyone will get attention regardless of looks and age. Members usually will not even take the time to read your profile description. If you believe you are in a relationship with a member after a year or two - forget it. They don't really care and will move on to the next sucker if you run out of credits for a while. I would say stay away. It's a black hole. I could write a book.”
“Here is the complete email from "Victoria," the girl who worked for them. I promised to keep her identity secret, because she feared reprisal. This is cut and paste directly from an email she sent:
From a girl who worked there: What I have already told you about such sites is not all that I know, sites that are in your country cooperate with Ukrainian companies that hire people here who correspond with you and many others instead of girls. And the girls are just models who sell their materials, get a percentage of the gifts, and those people who correspond with men get a percentage based on how much money a man has spent on the site. Some girls cooperate with the site, so one of them sends you a photo with your name on it to gain your trust, they get orders for what they need to do for a particular man and they do it. You have a logical question, how would I know that, don't you? One of my friends was working in a similar company, she was corresponding with men for money, as I described above, but she did it for a short time, she was just cheated, when she applied for a job she was told that all the girls are real and just do not know English, but when she started working she realized that it was all a lie and found out many interesting things. She told me this and I decided to come to a similar site and see how everything works, honestly, I do not remember what was in your profile, my goal was just to save at least someone from there and tell the truth, they gave me mail to some men, support site, I do not know why they agreed, but it worked, but only you answered.
Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your time and money. If you wish to support Ukraine, find another venue. If you wish to meet women, find another venue.”
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Frank 05/18/2023 at 01:36 AM
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I was contacted by a woman who said that she had worked for violet dates and gained access to my email address. Her intentions were based on guilt, and a desire to come clean. She said that the site shared user information with other sites, targeted men based on their interests, and that the girls were almost exclusively paid models who were given a percentage of the proceeds from chats. In fact, many are not even women. She also said that despite what the women say, contact off site is not only allowed, but easy, as is visa application to the US. That is why they push photos, emails, and videos. So, for fun, I changed my name to "Frank" and my age to 102 and still drew attention from women. In fact, some women who had already begun contact started calling me Frank, 100% scam”
“If you know the difference between investing money and wasting it– avoid this site. There are sites that work perfectly and make wonders just because they keep 7:1 women to men ratio. Sites like
J4Date.com
- they are reliable and credible. Tried-and-true, tested even by my friends from fraud prevention organizations. And here is the most important proof: I met my g/f there. She makes me the happiest man on earth, especially when she wakes me up every morning with a soft kiss and gentle touch of her silky long blonde hair.
Please don’t let Violetdates fool you and make profit on your wish to be respected and cherished. They are good at manipulating people. Don’t let them do it with you!”
“Registration for Violetdates.com takes quite a while to select user-specific traits. The site is very expensive to send emails, chats, photos etc. The photos are very edited to enhance the appearance of ladies (a lady sent her recent photos and they were very different to the profile photos). Each lady's profile has recently been changed so their height and weight is omitted - imagine making a date only to find your date is much taller or skinnier or fatter than expected. Support do respond to enquiries (expect more than 24 hours) but suggestions for improvements are ignored. Hence I can only give 2 stars.”
“For me, registering and filling out a profile on VioletDates turned out to be very difficult. I was able to create a profile only with the help of customer service. They also helped me with the correspondence. I liked the communication, because we quickly found common themes.”
“I like to have long evening conversations in chats at VioletDates. We discuss any topic, even very personal ones. Because here you feel protected. It's nice to see how the person you are talking to is interested in your problems, tries to help or just cheers you up.”
“The disadvantage of communicating at VioletDates is the cost of credits you have to pay in order to write to the person. Certainly, it is possible to put up with it for the sake of the pleasure of talking to the interesting and listening interlocutor. In addition, paid accounts are more thoroughly checked.”
“Sometimes you get a feeling of loneliness, feeling that nobody needs you. The best way out for me in these moments is VioletDates. I never feel alone here. It's easy to start a casual conversation, which gradually grows into a community of like-minded people. It is especially pleasant when the interlocutor is nice.”
“At VioletDates everything is as simple and laconic as possible. Registration is fast, privacy and security in chats is at the highest level, customer support is always in touch. It's easy to choose an interlocutor who shares your views. I have never met a fake profile, only real interlocutors.”
“VioletDates has become my go-to helper in this complicated world. I thought that I would never be able to communicate for hours without compulsion. But there are so many adequate, real and interesting interlocutors here that I am now a communication guru again.”
“Work, work, work, there is not enough time for normal communication. A friend suggested VioletDates and now, in a spare minute I can go into a chat room and spend a few minutes in the pleasant company of a lovely companion.”
