“Every message, every chat is incentivized. You pay for it and part of the fee you pay goes to the woman. Sometimes they are robotic messages, sometimes there are site's employees writing you in chat and trying to get you're interested. If you try any legit site like
J4Secret.com
you will notice that women aren't spending days and nights online there and not all of them are interested in you. As for Violet Dave absolutely every woman that you contact will write you back which is great but it's not normal isn't it? The secret is when you spend 3000 credits and get their contact information they will lose interest in you. They will come up with some kind of excuse to keep communication on Violetdates. No matter what they won't agree to use Whatsapp or any other free messenger. Violetdates is a pointless waste of money!”
“violatdates ukraine where i have been for long time is no more then a huge scam, it is not about meet your love no no it is only about get men to spend more and more expensive credits it is never lead to a meeting. customer for over a year and put lot of money on creds on one lady time to time but when it comes to try meet after been spending houndreds of euro you ask to go somewhere to change adress that lead to a meeting you always get to hear "no i want to stay here" where you can not change privat information. sp please all men stop by creds it all about you to pay more and more creds that lead to nothing. also one lady ask you about your dog you with you on photos emeditly you get like 6-10 other ladys ask the exact same thing how is that possible if it is not viloatdates that write to you and absolutly not the lady you belive you are writing with.”
“VioletDates is full of scammers preying on hopeful single people trying to take advantage of their loneliness. All the women are under the site's payroll! Avoid it at all costs! If you like Ukrainian girls I can recommend
J4Match.com
It is significantly better because there are no employees of the site pretending to be female members. I've already been on two dates via this site. Both of them went great. When are used VioletDates I got contact details of three women. All of them absolutely refused to use free sites and messengers. They just wanted to stay on VioletDates and keep on chatting forever earning commissions.”
“Every message, every chat is incentivized. You pay for it and part of the fee you pay goes to the woman. Sometimes they are robotic messages, sometimes there are site's employees writing you in chat and trying to get you're interested. If you try any legit site like
J4Bride.com
you will notice that women aren't spending days and nights online there and not all of them are interested in you. As for Violet Dave absolutely every woman that you contact will write you back which is great but it's not normal isn't it? The secret is when you spend 3000 credits and get their contact information they will lose interest in you. They will come up with some kind of excuse to keep communication on Violetdates. No matter what they won't agree to use Whatsapp or any other free messenger. Violetdates is a pointless waste of money!”
“Here is the complete email from "Victoria," the girl who worked for them. I promised to keep her identity secret, because she feared reprisal. This is cut and paste directly from an email she sent:
From a girl who worked there: What I have already told you about such sites is not all that I know, sites that are in your country cooperate with Ukrainian companies that hire people here who correspond with you and many others instead of girls. And the girls are just models who sell their materials, get a percentage of the gifts, and those people who correspond with men get a percentage based on how much money a man has spent on the site. Some girls cooperate with the site, so one of them sends you a photo with your name on it to gain your trust, they get orders for what they need to do for a particular man and they do it. You have a logical question, how would I know that, don't you? One of my friends was working in a similar company, she was corresponding with men for money, as I described above, but she did it for a short time, she was just cheated, when she applied for a job she was told that all the girls are real and just do not know English, but when she started working she realized that it was all a lie and found out many interesting things. She told me this and I decided to come to a similar site and see how everything works, honestly, I do not remember what was in your profile, my goal was just to save at least someone from there and tell the truth, they gave me mail to some men, support site, I do not know why they agreed, but it worked, but only you answered.
Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your time and money. If you wish to support Ukraine, find another venue. If you wish to meet women, find another venue.”
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I was contacted by a woman who said that she had worked for violet dates and gained access to my email address. Her intentions were based on guilt, and a desire to come clean. She said that the site shared user information with other sites, targeted men based on their interests, and that the girls were almost exclusively paid models who were given a percentage of the proceeds from chats. In fact, many are not even women. She also said that despite what the women say, contact off site is not only allowed, but easy, as is visa application to the US. That is why they push photos, emails, and videos. So, for fun, I changed my name to "Frank" and my age to 102 and still drew attention from women. In fact, some women who had already begun contact started calling me Frank, 100% scam”
“If you know the difference between investing money and wasting it– avoid this site. There are sites that work perfectly and make wonders just because they keep 7:1 women to men ratio. Sites like
J4Date.com
- they are reliable and credible. Tried-and-true, tested even by my friends from fraud prevention organizations. And here is the most important proof: I met my g/f there. She makes me the happiest man on earth, especially when she wakes me up every morning with a soft kiss and gentle touch of her silky long blonde hair.
Please don’t let Violetdates fool you and make profit on your wish to be respected and cherished. They are good at manipulating people. Don’t let them do it with you!”
“If you ask a girl to share her contact details and chat elsewhere she starts beating around the bush and playing stupid. Don’t waste your money there, it’s all scam, they pay their girls for chatting. Things turned around for me on
http://J4Love.net
I think it’s one of the very few honest and legit dating sites. After going on three dates with three lovely women I met my girlfriend. It worked perfectly for me. You may want to try it too. Anyway, don’t bother with VioletDates, it’s plain rip off with no genuine girls.”
