Name: Lisa A. Romano
Rating: 4.92

“I discovered Lisa via her U-Tube channel, I'm not a student currently however, her Life Coach informative teachings has helped me tremendously understanding, accepting, recovery and healing from a five year relationship with a female narcissist. I have written a paper relating to my journey with an abusive woman from 2019 until 2024. Ladies, please don't miss-understand. I adore woman, I'm an empathetic personality. I will share my story here: DEFINITION: A narcissist is someone who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance and entitlement, and has difficulty recognizing the needs of others. Narcissism can be viewed as the epitome of sin, as individuals choose to be their own gods, seeking self- worship ands control. The book of Proverbs addresses this concept by referring to narcissistic behaviors as foolishness. The fool makes their own rules, scoffs at rebuke, and disregards the harm their actions may cause. Some signs of a narcissistic personality include: Arrogance: is the belief that one is superior or more important than others, and is characterized by unpleasant behavior towards others. Someone who is arrogant behaves in a proud, unpleasant way toward other people because they believe that they are more important than others. Lack of empathy: has an impaired ability to understand and relate to the feelings of others. Criticizing others for their emotions or blaming them for their experiences. Not realizing or not feeling remorseful about how their actions impact others. Exploitative: may use people to get what they want. Someone or something that selfishly takes advantage of someone or a group of people in order to profit from them or otherwise benefit. Manipulative: may use manipulation to maintain their perceived superiority. When a person uses controlling and harmful behaviors to avoid responsibility, conceal their true intentions, or cause doubt and confusion. Manipulation tactics, such as gaslighting, lying, blaming, criticizing, and shaming, can damage a person's psychological well-being. Grandiose fantasies: may have fantasies of success, power, or brilliance. Envy: may be envious of others and believe others are envious of her. Need for admiration: may have an excessive need for admiration and special treatment. Difficulty controlling emotions: may have difficulty controlling emotions like rage or jealousy. Inability to recognize boundaries: may have difficulty recognizing boundaries. Psychological theories about narcissism suggest that the narcissistic person uses defense mechanisms to idealize self so that they do not have to face their own mistakes (sin) or flaws (fallen state). The diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder outlines the behavior patterns of a narcissistic person as being haughty, non-empathetic, manipulative, and envious; also possesses a sense of entitlement and grandiosity. From a biblical perspective, it is clear that these heart conditions are due to pride, which is sin (Proverbs 16:18). The Bible tells us to “look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:4). The narcissist routinely disobeys this command. MY JOURNEY WITH AN ABUSIVE WOMAN: 2019-2024 In my experience, I opened my heart and house to this individual. I cared for her, her family and grandchildren. After the first year, the abuse began to slowly become apparent, and increased over time. This woman constantly used cruel tactics to devalue, vilify, manipulate, destroy and break down my character. She specialized in degrading me in most hurtful ways. I was disrespected by a woman who is a Wolfe in Sheep skin. She traumatized myself, my adult children and many other innocent individuals. No empathy or regard for anyone or their feelings. This woman is toxic, I had asked her to leave three times over the five year period. Once I detached and remained silent to avoid her manipulative abusive behavior, the disgusting unhinged malicious behavior went off the charts and evolved into physical violence. I addressed her relating to the behavior, and the physical violence. I made it clear that no one should ever raise a hand in violence in a relationship. Two months prior to the breakup I stated to her the following: “ This relationship is broken, we need to resolve the resentment”. Her continuous abusive behavior demonstrated no interest in digging deep and addressing the problems. The manipulation continued, constantly and brutally attacking emotionally, mentally, and all narratives were flipped and blame shifted on myself. Her goal was to destroy me and use her delusions to gain attention and turn all against me. No matter of her behavior, never once admitted, owned accountability or apologized for her delusional actions. I firmly believe that any individual that constantly accuses a partner of wrong doing are actually projecting their own behavior and deflecting their guilt to avoid having to face their own actions and insecurities. I’m an empathetic personality therefore I was target, this individual’s constant tormenting, taunting, shaming and devaluing was specifically designed to provoke emotional reaction to feed the narcissist supply. The end result would be her flipping the narrative and blame upon myself. During the course of the five years the abusive manipulation, and stress took its toll on me physically. My body was soaking in Cortisol. I ended up in the hospital due to the stress. Ultimately, I felt distain for this individual and no longer could give of myself. This individual’s behavior was so disrespectful, my only defense was silence and disengagement. After five years, I looked her in the eye and stated, YOU AND I ARE OVER. She moved out the next week because she knew, I handed her behavior back to her. She called out for no contact, I firmly believe that this behavior is her way of punishment and a last desperation to hold on to power because I took her depleting power away. There are many details of her destructive, manipulative betrayal that are not mentioned here however, they have been exposed by her own actions and individuals that are trusted and have my best interest at heart. There is no need for me to defend my character, nor worry about what people think. Her insecurities and toxic behavior is on her. I have forgave to release myself from the abuse I have endured over the last five years. Myself reflection and accountability will allow God to guide me to recovery and ensure a much brighter future. The last day she was in my home, I apologized to her for the situation, hugged her and showed respect. The reply I received in return was: “ I don’t even know what to say right now”. This individual exposed herself, through very selfish immature psychological abusive behavior. The facade is fake, the mask is off, and self destruction shall be her own. In closing, she is never wrong, always the victim, and never apologized for her destructive, abusive toxic behavior and fabricated delusional lies. In addition, the innocent individuals that her actions caused malevolence through arrogance. I am now focused on self-improvement and healing. Know the signs, know your worth, be confident, never accept anything less than you deserve. Silence is the key to survival, it’s not meant to be cruel however, the narcissistic personality does not understand normal rational reasoning. Silence is my “PEACE” and sends clear communication to the abuser, I know longer will tolerate your disrespect, there will be no reactive narcissistic supply. I am 63 years old, the narrative noted above is the truth and the behavior I endured. The best thing I did for myself, was to forgive to let go of the abuse. I now am finally free of the abuser, and the toxic drama and shaming. I hope my humility and sharing my story can help individuals caught in the web of narcissistic relationships. Thanks goes out to Lisa A. Romano”

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Posted 1 month ago

“I am proud to be a graduate of the first ever Soul School, a Course in the Quantum Science of Love Consciousness. The journey to get here was through the 12 week Breakthrough Coaching Program and Master Class, as well as many videos and books by offered by Lisa. If you are struggling with codependency, she is the person to help you figure it out. My life has changed and been enriched so much by all of her teachings. I consider her my soul sister and I am forever grateful.”

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Posted 3 months ago

“I must apologize. I am currently married to a narcissist & he is a financial bully & I don’t even have enough money for normal necessities. My car recently over heated & he refuses to pay our mechanic. I would love to learn more because I am empowering myself to start divorce proceedings & start loving ME again. Q: do you have something such as a smaller, free, package for those of us that are destitute & just getting out from under a NARC’S thumb? I’m sure it’s great & worth listening to. Right now I am giving myself a bad review because I allowed narc husvpband to manipulate me into this broke situation. Thank you for listening to my review. Hope to be above water soon!”

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Posted 3 months ago

“I recently completed the 12 week Breakthrough program and can say it is truly life altering. I have spent years and thousands of dollars with therapists who functioned as listening partners, never identifying the core patterns, beliefs, and the way I was programmed to function in this world at an early age. As a result, I would feel temporary relief but over time would revert back to the familiar which kept me stuck in cycles of people pleasing, perfectionism, working too much, etc. I had no idea how much power I have to begin to change patterns I didn't even realize existed with just 12 weeks of work. Lisa has done this work herself and has poured her heart into helping others with this program. The support you receive from Lisa, her team and the class is amazing. You feel like you are finally with people who understand you and your journey. Amazing experience - worth the modest finanical investment in yourself to change your life.”

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Posted 4 months ago

“I just finished Lisa A. Romano's 12-Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. It is an understatement to say that this program has absolutely transformed my life in ways I never could have imagined. Coming from a background of abuse and childhood emotional neglect, I grew up disconnected from myself. I believed myself to be unworthy, lived to please everyone around me, did not know what boundaries were or how to create them, and attracted manipulative, narcissistic partners. I have been in therapy regularly for the past decade, with five different therapists. Although each therapist has helped illuminate different issues/areas of concern throughout my healing journey, a decade later I ultimately was still left feeling stuck. I could not shake off the core wound of feeling unworthy, unlovable, guilt, self-blame, and shame. No amount of daily positive affirmations/mantras was changing that. Lisa's program is structured differently than therapy. Unlike therapy where you might see your therapist once a week or once a month and you can hop from topic to topic, this program is a DAILY immersive experience. Lisa's program starts you at the beginning , from before you were born, and builds up to the thoughts and beliefs we have as co-dependent adults, and finally to the idea that you can actually dream and make plans/goals for yourself. Daily journaling prompts, videos, meditations, and weekly Facebook livestreams are designed to keep you immersed and will help you delve deeper into your subconscious mind and face those limiting beliefs. This three-month experience will provide you a rich, supportive environment conducive to profound and lasting learning. It will offer you the time and space that you need to internalize new knowledge and ideas, and will give you tools to help take your life back, and begin changing your subconscious beliefs and patterns. If you are finding yourself resonating with the messages from Lisa's podcasts, meditations, posts, etc., and are debating about whether or not to take the 12-week class-- save up, take the leap of faith, and sign up. Commit to the process: Do the homework and meditations, try to join as many weekly Saturday livestreams as you can, and watch yourself change. It may very well be the most important investment you make in yourself that will pay off dividends in your life. *I personally highly highly recommend the LIVE class because the community of support you get from your fellow cohort members, moderators, and Lisa are absolutely invaluable.”

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Posted 5 months ago

Hi Rachel! Thank you for taking the time to write a review for The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. It is an honor to offer this program as a guide and roadmap back to the divine self despite painful past experiences and the valid default mechanisms that are a natural part of experiencing things like emotional neglect and childhood trauma, such as hypervigilance and codependency. Like you, I visited at least five therapists on my quest to get to the root of why I was so unhappy. It wasn't until I was diagnosed with codependency that I developed an insatiable curiosity for how childhood experiences shape one's mindset, personality, belief systems, and states of consciousness that I was able to breakthrough and understand that every human is programmed with a set of beliefs that are shaped by their childhood experiences, healthy or otherwise. In essence, it was never us; it was only our programming. However, a major challenge is helping people develop the ability to observe their emotions, thoughts, actions, beliefs, and expectations from a more objective state of mind. To achieve this, we must take a different approach to healing and recovery. This approach must start at the beginning before our faulty concepts of self are formed, which then offers the greatest chance of developing self-awareness. This awareness must be objective and, therefore, nonresistant to what is observed, and to achieve this, the mind must also then understand the basic psychological processes, such as pain vs. pleasure, in order to be able to withstand rather than recoil when a painful event is recalled. For these reasons and many more, I created this 12-week program with the intention of helping students suspend their attachments to what is happening in the now long enough to understand the why and the how of whatever their challenges might be. And just like the smallest habits create our large realities, my goal was to help make self care, self love, self exploration, self compassion, self inquiry, self understanding, and self regulation daily habits, knowing that over a three-month period, powerful habits for life would be formed, increasing one's chances of continued and permanent transformation. You have obviously understood the intention and mindset of this three-month journey, and I want to thank you again for honoring my team and me with your sacred journey. My team and I are blessed and truly honored to be a part of anyone's healing and transformation because we believe this work is adding to the expansion of human consciousness, where we may all one day live in a world that is more aware and enlightened. To achieve this, each of us must first traverse the shadows within. When we do, we can't help but shine our light, and that benefits the entire universe. Thank you for finding your light, Dear One! Lisa A. Romano

Posted 5 months ago

“Good day, This program has been a journey like no other. Sometimes, and for a very long time I knew that something is wrong, I just didn't knew where to look, or what to do. I knew that I had to discover the answers as no matter what I did, or say it was never good enough, and the humiliation never stopped. Living in the shadow of other people's lies are such a travesty, and the tragedy is that you don't know it is a lie, as these lies came form the very people that were suppose to love you. I found the program structured and organised in such a way that I could systematically identify, isolate and work on the very issues that held me captive. There were so many golden nuggets presented, and to finally accept that I am not weird is an indescribable relief. I particurly enjoyed the honesty of the videos, the content and to finally have the assurance and clarity that my feelings were and are valid is such a celebration of being a human being! I could feel and sense life returning to me. As a 47 year old, for the first time I have a quiet focused mind, and the lessons learned has been indeed a breakthrough. The program is truly a breakthrough as so many nights I wondered and cried what is wrong with me? Every person's home and their experiences within that environment are different and valid. As an empath growing up in a unpredictable, volitile home I always had to worry about my father. If anyone has feelings of continuous inadequacy, anxiety, uncontrolled rage, depression and isn't sure where all these emotions come from, I would really recommend this program. Much love, Gerrit”

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Posted 5 months ago

“I have been on this journey for several years now but could never put the pieces of the puzzle together. I was always looking outward for the answers. The 12 Week Breakthrough Program showed me the path to understanding my inner child, my subconscious programming, my codependency, and that this was where everything originated from. The program also gave me the tools to fix myself and my faulty programming in order to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. I want to thank Lisa A. Romano and her staff. This program has truly transformed my Life.”

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Posted 5 months ago

“I have just completed the 12-Week breakthrough program with Coach Lisa Romano. Quite literally, this course has changed my life. I came into the course desperate for answers why my life was always in chaos. I thought I was doing everything I could to make a happy life for myself and the people around me, but it always ended with me the victim and questions of how did I go wrong again. I was sad, depressed and felt so misunderstood. What I have learned from Lisa and this course is that I was never the problem it was my programing. She gave me the tools I never learned as a child to live a life of abundance and joy. It will be a lifelong journey and I must work at this for the rest of my life. There are no quick fixes in this. You will learn to live in this word knowing you are enough. You will learn to be the light in your life and the lives of those around you. What you give out will come back to you. The elation and relief I feel is immeasurable!! I came into this course with the hope of fixing and getting back all the relationships that went wrong because of my codependency. Not only didn’t I get them back, I learned that letting go was the only way to ensure my happiness. I have hope and anticipation for the future I want now not the future I would have had if I had continued in my toxic behavior. Lisa gave me “ME” back!! I never met “ME” before!! I love “ME” now!! I am enough in this world and always was enough!! Run don’t walk into this course!! Give it your complete attention!! Invest in yourself!! It truly is everything!!”

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Posted 5 months ago

“The 12 week Breakthrough program is an amazing program and life changing experience. Lisa is an incredible and thoughtful coach who guides you every step of the way. The live streams were a wonderful experience as well. Can't say enough positive things about the program and the impact it has to those willing to put in the work.”

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Posted 5 months ago

“I just finished Lisa A. Ramano’s 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. I have wanted to do this for along time and finally I just went for it. I am so grateful that I did. I did not realize how badly I needed this information. Lisa has such a profound understanding of childhood trauma and the lasting effects. Her caring and insight is evident right from the beginning. I now have a firm grasp of why I am me. And I am calmer and more at peace with myself. I am taking the Master Class soon and couldn’t be more excited! The more I know, the more I grow! Into the person I was always meant to be. Calm, Relaxed, Confident, Humble, Empathetic, and HAPPY!”

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Posted 5 months ago

“If you are struggling with the dance of Codependency and really want your subconscious beliefs that create your difficult life to change, then Lisa's online Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. I've done a lot of work on myself over the years with positive results, but until this program, I was not aware of nor able to change my deeply imbedded subconscious thinking that kept messing me up in my relationship to significant others, but even more importantly, with myself. After another breakup with yet another partner, I was blessed to happen upon Lisa on YouTube. I was immediately drawn to her work. It was a lifeline to my sanity. I quickly signed up for the course and have had amazing changes because of Lisa's unique way of presenting the material that we need to truly heal and change. She has walked the walk and done the work herself. She's the real deal and very impassioned about her participants' recovery. I can't recommend this course enough. If you're willing to devote an hour a day to your own healing, this course is worth every penny. I will be signing up for subsequent courses with Lisa as the results for me have been remarkable.”

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Posted 1 year ago

“I took the 12 week breakthrough course and i can without any doubt say, that this is the best personal development course i have ever done. I have finally found a course and a teacher (Lisa A Romano) whose philosophy and teachings have worked. This course, has changed the way i view myself and helped me ,to start loving myself and believing in myself . No other courses or therapists have done this , i have tried it all. The Master class, is a course that helps you to master your mind , your emotions and therefore your Life, it teaches you how to manifest your desires and this will ignite your life and you stop being afraid and start living your dreams literally. I highly recommend both courses, for anybody who feels low self esteem, stuck, fearfull and worthless, you wont regret taking these courses , they will change your life for the better!.”

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Posted 1 year ago

Hi Kim, Thank you for taking the time to review these courses. My team and I aim to help people expand their consciousness and confront their limiting beliefs, created during the most innocent times when our brains were wiring according to what was happening in our environments when we were children. Most people don't understand how the brain or the mind operates. They assume that what they notice happening in their minds results from aware consciousness. However, most thoughts are recycled. And most of our actions are also habitual. Therefore, we are more automated beings than authentic, but we don't know it. We all live below the veil of consciousness and out of subconscious fears until our lives become unmanageable, and we ask different questions. Low self-worth is so far from our authentic truth, and until we learn to confront our inner wounds, psychic injuries control our lives, all outside of our consciousness. Being part of your sacred journey back to the divine self is an honor. And I want to personally thank you for pushing human consciousness forward by learning to master your emotions, beliefs, thoughts, habits, intentions, and energy better. It was never you, it was only your programming. All my love, Lisa A. Romano

Posted 1 year ago

“My life came to a crossroads about 4 years ago. Through a series of unforeseen events, I was forced to face the fact that I had been living as a codependent for my entire life. Every romantic relationship and several friendships that I had been involved in were with narcissists. Each one seemed to be worse than the prior one and culminated with a covert narcissist. I did not even know that they existed until I came to terms with my now ex who had been emotionally abusing me for 18 years. The last stunt he pulled pushed me over the edge and nearly broke me. Fortunately, I started reading everything I could about narcissists and came across Lisa A Romano. Her upbringing was very similar to mine and I began to feel a special bond with her, even though I had never met her. I’ve listened to hundreds of her videos, taken all of her classes that she offers, and learned to face the truth. I feel like she has saved my life. I will be 64 in a few months and I am the happiest I’ve ever been! Thanks to her and everything I’ve learned from her, I’m now able to recognize when something in my life is a red flag, and my thoughts automatically react in a healthy way. It’s so wonderful to know that I’m not crazy and always at fault. That was my so-called normal reaction in the past. This has been a long hard journey, but I was determined to find my true self. I definitely recommend all of her courses, books, videos, etc. Your life will change for the better. She has “walked the walk” so she knows how we feel. I am so grateful that God brought her into my life and I’m eager to take the new class that she will be offering soon, Soul School. I believe that it was Divine Intervention that brought Lisa to me and I will be forever grateful! Thank you Lisa A Romano!”

Lisa A. Romano 5 star review on 2nd July 2023

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Posted 1 year ago

Thank you Bridget! Humans are intelligent creatures, however, we don't generally use our intellect to understand how the mind, which we are not, by the way, comes to form. The notion that we think therefore we are, is false. 'I feel therefore I am,' is more appropriate. What we feel has consequences, whether we are three days old, three years old, thirty, sixty, or ninety years old. Because you ached to understand yourself and to find peace, what you sought found you. 'Seek and you shall find', as they say. You have embraced the work and the walk. I only offer a way to find the road back to the true self...You and those who participate in my programs do the work. And as you are learning, it is quite possible to become so entangled with toxic forces at the feeling/quantum level, that as an adult, they seem to be everywhere. You Dear One, have learned to break free at the feeling level. You changed your brain through the feeling level. I imagine a world where everyone takes the time to understand, learn and practice flipping the reticular activating system of the brain so they can know the true power of a stabilized awareness. Yes, I am looking forward to taking you to soul level with Soul School. See you soon, and thank you for your time, your confidence in my work, and the healing energy you output into the world every moment of your life. Because you changed, you changed us all.

Posted 1 year ago

“After three years of therapy and counseling with decorated individuals, my work with Lisa Romano was most effective. I listened to over 100 episodes of her podcasts, read every one of her posts on Instagram, signed up for the 12 advanced audio series on co-dependency, and did numerous one-on-one sessions. I felt she was like a fly on the wall witnessing everything daily. But that's how spot-on she is. She took a stance, empowered me, and opened my eyes to the reality of what I was living. She gave me the tools to honor and respect myself, trust my feelings, and courageously plow forward. It's not about the other; it's about getting yourself to a higher level of consciousness so you are thriving and not surviving. I'm forever indebted to her for helping me regain my self-worth and self-esteem.”

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Posted 1 year ago

“I don’t even know where to begin to explain the impact Lisa A. Romano has had on making it possible for me to change my life. Her words resonated deeply with me and personally felt like my feelings and emotions and situations I could never find the words for or untangle to m as me sense of. I began watching her many You Tube videos and joined her groups discovering I was not alone and was in fact highly codependent. When I was ready to do the work and willing to examine my entire life closely, I took both the 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program and the Master Class. It is not an easy process to go through but a crucial journey for authentic healing. In Lisa’s class, I developed a profound understanding of self. She gave me the tools and guidance that answers very clearly patterns and behaviours and faulty beliefs that I had and why I had them. It has permanently changed my life and transitioned me from a state of being ‘stuck’ to a life with momentum, clarity and peace.”

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Posted 2 years ago

“I’m incredibly grateful to Lisa for all the tools she has provided to me through the 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program and the Master Class. Her programs (including videos, meditations, livestreams, journaling, and written materials) really resonate with me and have helped me tremendously in shifting my vibration, thought process, and life. Her messages are so honest, thoughtful and powerful. I would encourage anyone on the path of self-healing to check out her programs! ~ Grace S.”

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Posted 2 years ago

“I love this app. Great loving pick me ups throughput the day. Positive affirmations to get one think about what they think about! . So much self care tips. Teaching Kindness and self esteem. The app is worth it I’m so many ways. The messages are full of compassion, the cOst is ridiculously low. The impact of awesomeness is high. If you struggle with codependency or if you are looking for encouragement to be the best you, look no further. You landed in the best place. I look forward every day to my special love notes from Lisa. It’s encouraging and thought provoking with a simple journal prompt. Lisa helps you see that life is great once you start realizing you are a precious soul. Lisa shows you that you are enough! You are enough! You are divine and you deserve a great relationship with yourself and others. Absolutely recommend this app! You won’t be disappointed. Thank you 🙏 ❤️🦋”

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Posted 2 years ago

“Lisa has helped me so much. First of all she’s helped me to recognize that I’m codependent and then she’s given me tools to come out of it. I felt so stuck until I took Lisa’s 12 weeks course. It’s a strategic and logical approach to come out of codependency, which I needed. Lisa’s heart is in her work and I appreciate her honesty and love.”

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Posted 2 years ago

“My life feels worth LIVING rather than just surviving, having taken Lisa’s 12-week Breakthrough Course and now her Master Class. She is a truly gifted coach who teaches from her heart and personal experience, having overcome and evolved past her own personal pain. Lisa has amazing insights to people’s personal experiences, getting right to the crux to bring about true healing, awakening and transformation. A genuine light-bringer.”

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