2 out of 2 serious correspondence went sour. The second Lady I wrote was in her thirties. It takes 15 letters purchased from the man with responses to buy her contact information. On the site we got along super. She knew I was planning on paying for her contact info. Daily we wrote on site. Once I had her email, the litters dropped off to practically zero on her end. I still noticed that she was online with ladadate at least 6 hours each morning, same time period. I spent almost $300. in a few weeks to find a connection. My suspicion is that these women are paid to induce older men to write. Disappointed, but wiser. Guys. Don't waste your money, unless you just want online gratification.